{"id":2007,"date":"2026-03-20T09:53:20","date_gmt":"2026-03-20T02:53:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/?p=2007"},"modified":"2026-03-20T09:53:20","modified_gmt":"2026-03-20T02:53:20","slug":"cach-xay-dung-moi-quan-he-gan-ket-vung-chac-voi-tre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/cach-xay-dung-moi-quan-he-gan-ket-vung-chac-voi-tre\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00c1CH X\u00c2Y D\u1ef0NG M\u1ed0I QUAN H\u1ec6 G\u1eaeN K\u1ebeT V\u1eeeNG CH\u1eaeC V\u1edaI TR\u1eba"},"content":{"rendered":"

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L\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng con<\/span> l\u00e0 tri\u1ebft l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 <\/span>t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin c\u1eady<\/span>. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n <\/span>t\u1ef1 tin, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/span> v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i. Vi\u1ec7c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vai tr\u00f2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 tinh t\u1ebf.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00ec sao l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng con l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng?<\/b><\/h2>\n

L\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng con\u201d kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap g\u1eafn k\u1ebft gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/span><\/p>\n

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  • X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n: Vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n (Safe Space), khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng chia s\u1ebb suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng hay sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. S\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i n\u00e0y gi\u00fap cha m\u1eb9 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a con.<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t: Khi con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn gi\u00fap b\u00e9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n trong c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i: M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n – cha m\u1eb9 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh l\u00e0 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u1ec1 giao ti\u1ebfp. Th\u00f4ng qua t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe, \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n khi l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng con<\/b><\/h2>\n

    \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n n\u1eafm v\u1eefng ba nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0ng sau, gi\u00fap c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 vai tr\u00f2 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      Vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      D\u00f9 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng vai tr\u00f2 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef v\u1eefng. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tin c\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn d\u1eaft v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi cho con.<\/span><\/p>\n

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        T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 c\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t. T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng suy ngh\u0129, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u1edf l\u00f2ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

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        • T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng: T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng suy ngh\u0129, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t hay ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn. <\/span>V\u00ed d\u1ee5: Khi con b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3: “Ba m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 con \u0111ang r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n.”<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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          • L\u1eafng nghe s\u00e2u s\u1eafc: L\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u con \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/span>\"\"<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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              \u0110\u1eb7t ranh gi\u1edbi r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Tuy th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa vai tr\u00f2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn. Ranh gi\u1edbi gi\u00fap con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i game c\u00f9ng con, nh\u01b0ng con ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 quy t\u1eafc v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra.<\/span><\/p>\n

              \u00a05 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng con hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/b><\/h2>\n

              D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 5 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

              1. D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng con\u00a0<\/b><\/h3>\n

              Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111o b\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1 gi\u1edd \u1edf b\u00ean con, m\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. Khi ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng con, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n g\u00e1c l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng xao nh\u00e3ng kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0o ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng chung. S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe.<\/span><\/p>\n

              2. Th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/b><\/h3>\n

              L\u1eddi n\u00f3i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng g\u1eafn k\u1ebft b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

              3. T\u1ea1o k\u00fd \u1ee9c, k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p cho con<\/b><\/h3>\n

              C\u00f9ng con tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i ch\u01a1i, c\u00e1c d\u1ecbp l\u1ec5 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng k\u00fd \u1ee9c kh\u00f3 qu\u00ean. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y gi\u00fap con nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\n

              V\u00ed d\u1ee5: C\u00f9ng nhau l\u00e0m b\u00e1nh Trung thu, trang tr\u00ed c\u00e2y th\u00f4ng Noel<\/span><\/p>\n

              \"lam_ban_cung_con\"<\/p>\n

              4. T\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi con nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n<\/b><\/h3>\n

              Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1eb3ng trong c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con m\u1edf l\u00f2ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u00e0ng l\u1ecdc, t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

              5. T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a con<\/b><\/p>\n

              S\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ranh gi\u1edbi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, thay v\u00ec \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng.<\/span><\/p>\n

              K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn<\/b><\/h2>\n

              L\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

              L\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng con l\u00e0 tri\u1ebft l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin c\u1eady. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 tin, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i. Vi\u1ec7c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vai tr\u00f2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":2010,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,4,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2007","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tin-tuc","category-tin-tuc-tin-tuc","category-goc-chia-se"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2007","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2007"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2007\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2016,"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2007\/revisions\/2016"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2010"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2007"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2007"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidsclub.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2007"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}